Those who may be looking for an experienced Mistress may become discouraged for the simple reason that it is often hard to find such a person. Much of this, of course, depends on where a person lives. If you live in a major metropolitan city, chances are good that you will be able to find some of the places suggested here in a moment in your city. However, if you live in a rural area, you may have more difficulty in finding an experienced Mistress who is close by.

Local BDSM club

For those who are looking for an knowledgeable Mistress, the first option is in local BDSM clubs. These clubs are more popular now than they were in the past, and they are fairly easy to find if you live in or near a major city. Some cities, such as Los Angeles and New York, have many of the lifestyle clubs. Other cities, usually smaller cities, will have only a few clubs, if any.

Munch meetings

Another option for those who are seeking an experienced Mistress is to see if your area has any BDSM munch clubs. These are not nightclubs, but rather private get-together’s that are held periodically, often once a month or so. Some of these munches are private and require an invitation, but getting an invite is not hard if one is truly looking to find companionship with others who are in the life. You can often find contact information for these local organizations online.

Online publications

There are now many online publications that contain information on both Mistresses and Masters. Some of these are local in nature and can be found by doing an online search. It should be noted, however, that many of those who advertise in these publications are professionals and will want some form of gratuity or payment in exchange for their services. This does not mean that ALL of these individuals are professionals, but don’t be fooled. If you are comfortable paying for an experienced Mistress, that is fine.

Online communities

Lastly, there are online communities that often work out very well for those who in this lifestyle and looking to meet others. One such community is and another is Both of these sites offer access to members (both sub and Dom) and allows for exchange of information. This is a very good way to get to know someone before you actually meet in person. Both of these sites offer free access for those who do not want to become full-fledged members, and both have been visited by this author with much success.

As you can see, there are a variety of ways to meet an experienced Mistress if one is willing to do some research. Most of the options looked at here can be explored online or contact information can be found online. One thing is fairly certain, if one is willing to put out some effort, one can find the person that they are looking for and find that person (usually) in short amount of time.

Author: Robert O.